I have a very diverse style. Some days I wear red lipstick and a hat, other days I wear a cute light colored dress and some flats but recently I have been wanting to wear aviator glasses and my high heels! ^_^
I love to keep it fresh and mix it up! Today I wore THE CUTEST outfit ever!! I had on a grey plaid skirt with blue and grey stripes and then tiny black and white ones. For my blouse I chose to wear a blue that matched and my blue shirt was lace so you could see through it, therefore under I had a purple tank top that matched the skirt. I had earrings that happened to match Perfectly as well and then I had my hair in a sock bun and kept my bangs straight across. I had on black nylons and my favorite grey heels; my heels are retro looking almost... I will Have to post a picture of my outfit!!
I loved it so much and got lots of compliments but I'm mentioning it because I never wear the skirt or really the shirt, ha I hardly wear those shoes. They all just sit in my room because it isn't my usual style but when you go out of your comfort zone a little you may find you like the change! Plus lots of people notice!
When putting together your next outfit match things together and pick one thing you really want to pop such as your shoes or even your facial features and focus on that. Another tip if you are wearing something you are not used to just smile a little or add your own usual style to the new style. Be comfortable with yourself is the most important thing, and have fun!
Sunday, July 7, 2013
Friday, July 5, 2013
MANY BOYS..........
So today I hung out with my best friend... my guy best friend and he asked me out; which he has done many times but today was a little different... I think I am starting to fall for my ridiculous, dorky, weird friend who is constantly hitting on me. He's crazy! He's funny! He's just Alex. He's everything I want but he most certainly isn't what I want! Do you know? It is confusing.
What I think I want and what I tell others I want is right in front of me in the shape of a scrawny white boy that has red hair... it has been extremely difficult for me to realize that I might actually like this kid!
On another note my other guy friend- that has a girlfriend, is hitting on me like none other! He's already offered to make me dinner, anything I want. Also he tells me how he can't hangout with me and my guy friends because he gets jealous and will want to fight them..... Kill me?! Why does this always happen to me? I tell him no all the time.......... really Nick? Ugh.
On top of that my stalker is talking to me again. He is insane and very persistent as well as the other guys. One time I went camping and he was at the same place! Camped right across from me! It was a coincidence, but still!
I have serious issues!!! Every guy I like I scare away, and then every other guy I talk to I don't act cute or do ANY thing special and they all fall for me it seems.....
Anyone want to help me and give me advice on how to keep the guys I like and keep the guys who like me away.
What I think I want and what I tell others I want is right in front of me in the shape of a scrawny white boy that has red hair... it has been extremely difficult for me to realize that I might actually like this kid!
On another note my other guy friend- that has a girlfriend, is hitting on me like none other! He's already offered to make me dinner, anything I want. Also he tells me how he can't hangout with me and my guy friends because he gets jealous and will want to fight them..... Kill me?! Why does this always happen to me? I tell him no all the time.......... really Nick? Ugh.
On top of that my stalker is talking to me again. He is insane and very persistent as well as the other guys. One time I went camping and he was at the same place! Camped right across from me! It was a coincidence, but still!
I have serious issues!!! Every guy I like I scare away, and then every other guy I talk to I don't act cute or do ANY thing special and they all fall for me it seems.....
Anyone want to help me and give me advice on how to keep the guys I like and keep the guys who like me away.
Wednesday, July 3, 2013
WHAT HAS THIS WORLD COME TO?!
So today something weird happened... my friend got threatened on facebook because he was posting conservative things! I find it funny although I share a lot of the same views I don't feel the need to blow up my wall with it. There is a time and a place for those kinds of things but also people shouldn't get so defensive. I guess some liberal reported him saying he was posting hate stuff but its all a bunch of BS... it was still weird that he actually got a notice that he had to stop posting those things or he would be blocked from facebook!! Who would have thought... its really ironic because there are always people posting half naked pictures of girls or celebrities on Facebook and then there is the dirty comics and nasty "pick up lines" but no one stops them.... WHAT HAS THIS WORLD COME TO?!
Dating Tips
When you think you're interested in someone some important things to remember before making a move is "Who am I?" and "Why do I like this person?" Trust me it sounds silly but it helps progress.
Obviously if you don't know the person a whole lot you like them because of simple things like their looks or the way the smile and laugh or maybe just the way they carry themselves.
These are all very important to make YOU more approachable and also helps to get noticed. ;)
First when you notice someone and you want to know more or talk or do whatever you need to be confident! If this is a spur of the moment thing then go with it! You wont have time to prep yourself or back out which is good. You need to be SMOOTH, act NATURAL and when you start the conversation say something simple such as "Wow, it is such a warm, beautiful night" this statement shows that you can observe things around you and such or you could complement the person but for a first compliment you want to compliment above the neck such as eyes because you don't want to come off as you have been checking out the person.
Confidence is Key! You need to be smooth and when you say something stupid or trip over your words because you're nervous then you need to be able to laugh it off! This is important for girls and guys. Funny people are always so attractive. Ask anyone.
Be yourself! This is also important because people can sense when you are trying too hard or are making up stuff and that just can get awkward and very uncomfortable very easily.
When talking to someone be sure not to say too much at a time. You want the person to be intrigued and want to ask questions for example "Today was such a long day at work, but I love what I do." that makes the person want to ask what your job is or you could say "I can't wait for September- I will be able to do what I've always wanted to do" keep it simple and they will want to know more if they are interested.
Keep calm and Keep dating!
If the first person doesn't like you try again- its about putting yourself out there and wanting to meet people. Not everyone you meet is going to love you-- Trust me, we all know this.
Obviously if you don't know the person a whole lot you like them because of simple things like their looks or the way the smile and laugh or maybe just the way they carry themselves.
These are all very important to make YOU more approachable and also helps to get noticed. ;)
First when you notice someone and you want to know more or talk or do whatever you need to be confident! If this is a spur of the moment thing then go with it! You wont have time to prep yourself or back out which is good. You need to be SMOOTH, act NATURAL and when you start the conversation say something simple such as "Wow, it is such a warm, beautiful night" this statement shows that you can observe things around you and such or you could complement the person but for a first compliment you want to compliment above the neck such as eyes because you don't want to come off as you have been checking out the person.
Confidence is Key! You need to be smooth and when you say something stupid or trip over your words because you're nervous then you need to be able to laugh it off! This is important for girls and guys. Funny people are always so attractive. Ask anyone.
Be yourself! This is also important because people can sense when you are trying too hard or are making up stuff and that just can get awkward and very uncomfortable very easily.
When talking to someone be sure not to say too much at a time. You want the person to be intrigued and want to ask questions for example "Today was such a long day at work, but I love what I do." that makes the person want to ask what your job is or you could say "I can't wait for September- I will be able to do what I've always wanted to do" keep it simple and they will want to know more if they are interested.
Keep calm and Keep dating!
If the first person doesn't like you try again- its about putting yourself out there and wanting to meet people. Not everyone you meet is going to love you-- Trust me, we all know this.
Today
Today has been pretty good. Just worked again, it was nice though. I fell asleep shortly after everyone left as the boy I watch was just reading quietly. When he finished his book he woke me up and put on a great movie that I didn't think I would like- Hotel Transelvania. It was so cute and I love that movie!! After the movie I fell asleep again! Gah! I have been so tired lately. I guess its because I have been stressed and been thinking about a lot of things! Anyway it was a nice and lazy day I enjoyed it.
Yesterday night was great too, I got to go out to dinner with my dad and we talked about boys who have hurt me but made me think and cute waitresses- it was quite funny. We made a bet about the waitress' age; I said she was 27 and dad said she was younger... I lost. I laughed a lot and I also gave my dad some great tips on dating! I will post them next!! ;)
Yesterday night was great too, I got to go out to dinner with my dad and we talked about boys who have hurt me but made me think and cute waitresses- it was quite funny. We made a bet about the waitress' age; I said she was 27 and dad said she was younger... I lost. I laughed a lot and I also gave my dad some great tips on dating! I will post them next!! ;)
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
Someone New
Oddly I have been talking to a new someone... I enjoy talking to this boy but it is impossible for ANYTHING to happen... first of all he is an old friend from Nevada and I just moved away six or seven months ago. I'm starting to like him though. I am crazy though! I tend to like anyone I talk to for more than twenty minutes... Its a bad thing and worse is most people know about my problem and think I'm a huge flirt and stuff! Where do they get that idea? *Laugh Out Loud*
Anyway talking to this person has been really good for me and has made me think a lot. I have thought that I truly should just drop the past. I don't mean forget about my best friends because I couldn't possibly do that! My only girl friends live in Nevada!! Anyway but what I should do is stop thinking that I still live there. **I need to live in the here and now.** That's what my mom used to always tell me and it's good advice! I really should stop thinking that one day I will be back and show all those guys that I did like that I am worth it and I really should stop keeping up with every little detail of drama that is happening with my old friends because it just depresses me.. honestly.
This one person has helped me realize all that.. who would've thought! Well now I am in a better mood and I feel better about myself weirdly. I'm glad that I am able to talk to "Someone New".
Anyway talking to this person has been really good for me and has made me think a lot. I have thought that I truly should just drop the past. I don't mean forget about my best friends because I couldn't possibly do that! My only girl friends live in Nevada!! Anyway but what I should do is stop thinking that I still live there. **I need to live in the here and now.** That's what my mom used to always tell me and it's good advice! I really should stop thinking that one day I will be back and show all those guys that I did like that I am worth it and I really should stop keeping up with every little detail of drama that is happening with my old friends because it just depresses me.. honestly.
This one person has helped me realize all that.. who would've thought! Well now I am in a better mood and I feel better about myself weirdly. I'm glad that I am able to talk to "Someone New".
Working and School
Today and yesterday were really great days! I am working for my aunt and watching my cousin all day and doing simple chores at the house, plus the pay is pretty good. I really enjoy watching my cousin, it has been good for me to get close to him and the rest of the family! I love it. Also yesterday Noah and I played airsoft war for hours! It was a blast- truly! Also Yesterday I got good news!!! I got my scholarship!! Now all of my schooling is paid for! I am only taking two classes a term though which means that I can work and do school! ;)
Today I got my schedule too! I only have classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays! Whoo-hoo!! I'm pretty happy and it has set me into a good mood. However I am soooo behind on my summer classes! -_-
Today I got my schedule too! I only have classes on Tuesdays and Thursdays! Whoo-hoo!! I'm pretty happy and it has set me into a good mood. However I am soooo behind on my summer classes! -_-
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