Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Dating Tips

When you think you're interested in someone some important things to remember before making a move is "Who am I?" and "Why do I like this person?" Trust me it sounds silly but it helps progress. 
Obviously if you don't know the person a whole lot you like them because of simple things like their looks or the way the smile and laugh or maybe just the way they carry themselves. 
These are all very important to make YOU more approachable and also helps to get noticed. ;) 

First when you notice someone and you want to know more or talk or do whatever you need to be confident! If this is a spur of the moment thing then go with it! You wont have time to prep yourself or back out which is good. You need to be SMOOTH, act NATURAL and when you start the conversation say something simple such as "Wow, it is such a warm, beautiful night" this statement shows that you can observe things around you and such or you could complement the person but for a first compliment you want to compliment above the neck such as eyes because you don't want to come off as you have been checking out the person. 

Confidence is Key! You need to be smooth and when you say something stupid or trip over your words because you're nervous then you need to be able to laugh it off! This is important for girls and guys. Funny people are always so attractive. Ask anyone. 

Be yourself! This is also important because people can sense when you are trying too hard or are making up stuff and that just can get awkward and very uncomfortable very easily. 

When talking to someone be sure not to say too much at a time. You want the person to be intrigued and want to ask questions for example "Today was such a long day at work, but I love what I do." that makes the person want to ask what your job is or you could say "I can't wait for September- I will be able to do what I've always wanted to do" keep it simple and they will want to know more if they are interested. 

Keep calm and Keep dating! 
If the first person doesn't like you try again- its about putting yourself out there and wanting to meet people. Not everyone you meet is going to love you-- Trust me, we all know this. 

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